21-DAY CHALLENGE© – #MOOREselfCARE
Curated by Dr. Eddie Moore Jr., Debby Irving, Tilda Kapuya, and June Christian.
©2014-2024 All Rights Reserved America & Moore, LLC
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is an act of political Warfare.”
– Audre Lorde
When white supremacy wears us down to the point of ineffectiveness, white supremacy wins. Because white supremacy thrives when we deny humanity, ours and others’, tending to our human needs is vital. And, using the oxygen mask on the airplane analogy, we can hardly care for our collective humanity if we don’t first pay attention to our own. Joy, positive energy, clarity, deep relationships, and resilience not only feel good, but they are powerful forms of resistance.
Though it can feel counterintuitive to take time for self-care when the world around us is in crisis and many of us have zero time for self-care, understanding and practicing self-care is not only “allowed,” it is required of us. Activism is a marathon, not a sprint. We hope the resources help you stay physically and spiritually nourished, so you can step up and stay in the intergenerational struggle for liberation.
HELP! I’M TOO BURNED OUT TO DO THIS PLAN!
Great that you’re noticing your own limitations.
For immediate relief, start with the TAKE A BREATH, NOTICE next, and then HEAL (BODY/MIND/SPIRIT) before continuing with the challenge.
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Are you experiencing activism burnout?
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What are your signs of burnout?
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What are your signs that your energy is coming back?
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What brings you energy? What drains it?
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What makes it hard for you to say no?
Suggested Reading:
Paul Gorski & Noura Erakat
READ
13 Self-Care Tips For Black People
Who Are Feeling Overwhelmed Right Now
READ BOOKS & GUIDES
Read the guides online. Where to find the books?
Check your local library. Borrow from a colleague, friend, or school. Or purchase from a local independent bookstore. You can also use these online options to source your selections.
Click here to find Black-owned bookstores by state that have online shopping.
The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love
Sonya Renee Taylor
In It For the Long Haul: Overcoming Burnout and Passion Fatigue as Social Justice Change Agent
Kathy Obear
My Grandmother’s Hands
Resmaa Menakem
LISTEN
Access most where you listen to podcasts
On Being Podcast with Krista Tippett
(Especially this episode with Resmaa Menakem)
On Being Studios
ENGAGE & CONNECT
Explore these resources to engage and connect:
Melanin Base Camp for POC who Love, or Aspire to Love, Outdoor Adventure Sports
44 Mental Health Resources for Black People Trying to Survive in This Country
Black Emotional And Mental Health Collective (BEAM)
(Offers free events/workshops, and other self-care resources)
The Trevor Project
• Supporting Black LGBTQ Youth Mental Health
• LGBTQ Safety Guide: Protect Your Space and Well-being on Instagram
NOURISH BLACK-OWNED BUSINESSES (BOBs)
Supporting Black-owned businesses is not only a good thing economically, but it also celebrates and sustains Black culture.
• Black-owned businesses support 3.56 million jobs in the US (2022 Brookings Institute report)
• 46% of all Black entrepreneurs are women (2021 Guidant Financial report)
Buy Black: 20 Powerful Reasons to Support Black-Owned Businesses
Lynnette Khalfani-Cox
The Money Coach
Official Black Wall Street
Eat Black Owned
Support Black Owned
100 Black-Owned Businesses to Support
Forbes
75+ Black-Owned Brands to Support Today and Every Day
In the Know
17+ Black-Owned Small Business Directories
US Chamber of Commerce
Black-Owned Bookstores You Can Shop Online
Madison Flager
Condé Nast Traveler
How to Support Black-Owned Businesses
Erica Sandberg
Bankrate
REFLECT & STAY INSPIRED
WHY REFLECT
Difficult emotions––such as shame and anger––though uncomfortable to feel, can guide you to deeper self-awareness about how power and privilege impacts you and the people in your life.
Reflecting and journaling enhances learning. By using a 21-Day Reflect tool each day, you discover how much you are actually understanding and making meaning. It helps you to transform your personal experience into a learning experience, and thus build your racial equity habits.
Music to Listen to with Intention for #MOOREselfCare:
Bob Marley, Three Little Birds
Bob Marley & The Wailers, Small Axe
Buffy Sainte-Marie, Up Where We Belong
Kirk Franklin, I Smile
Lalah Hathaway, Breathe
Lizzo, Good As Hell
Pharrell Williams, Happy
Rachel Platten, Fight Song
Sam Cooke, A Change is Gonna Come
Sounds Of Blackness, Hold On (Change Is Comin')
Stevie Wonder, Love Is In Need Of Love Today
TobyMac & Sarah Reeves, Scars (Come With Livin’)
Tracy Chapman, Talkin' About A Revolution
Whitney Houston, I’m Every Woman